--- layout: post title: "Certainly not…opposites attract and that!" date: 2018-01-10 --- > Well, it shows that we’re either extremely open-minded and unprejudiced … or horrifically naive — and not weirdo magnets … not at allCertainly not…opposites attract and that! > And you should be *wary* of lights anyway — I’ll give you evens on the light at the end of the tunnel being an oncoming train.I’ll take that. Either I win or I get hit by a train so I wouldn’t be around… That’s using yer noggin, see! (Course, not being in with the chance of a terminal disagreement with a train would be *really *using yer noggin :D) > but I’d probably have ended up being less of an arsehole *myself* too!Hence me being glad to be learning it all quite as early as I am. Even if it does make me frustrated in that I’m aware of problems without solutions in sight. > I doubt it’s unique to women though — I gather there are many fucked-up/sociopathic men in the world too.Oh aye I didn’t mean to imply otherwise, I just though the focus on women was appropriate contextually. > the curse of monogamous HeterosexualityAs in many things, a blessing and a curse.. > Moreover, I can’t cope with the “I love you. Go away. Come here. I hate you. Oranges!”OH, you and me *both*! > Added to which …Painfully humorous that. And highlights perfectly one of the major sources of friction between men and women…we *think* differently. The way men and women see the world differs fundamentally, and part of this is in the approach to problems. Men need solutions, women need to be heard…. Hmm, I think you’ve just inspired todays Piece.[1] > I’m not prepared to be *that* drastic about it — I’m just not panic stricken by a ‘dry patch’ any more and can easily go without, don’t need to seek it out.See this is one area where I see a problem and have a solution. I don’t have a healthy relationship with alcohol, so I’ll cut it out. I don’t intend it to be forever, just until I can assure myself I won’t wander to the edge of addiction again. > I do have a … let’s say ‘creative’ … turn of mind, yes ; )Much more so than Karma ;D [1] Nevermind me being your Muse incognito, I think *you* might be *mine*!